Last updateFri, 27 Nov 2020 10am

Are you and your dog getting along?

If there is one thing that unites many here in Lakeside, it is dog-ownership and understanding dog behavior. Even those without dogs seem to have a certain natural affection for our furry companions, and an equal curiosity about how dogs cleverly pretend to think.

Now, one thing canine experts say about dogs is that they don’t think, at least not the same way humans do. Nothing new here. If men and women don’t understand one another, how do we expect a Neapolitan Mastiff to figure out why he’s wearing dog booties. A dog, experts argue, is only capable of interpreting human behavior through the eyes of a dog, lensed with a primitive reasoning capacity that doesn’t include the logic behind  passing up fungus-fuzzy chicken bones in the street or understanding why you wear pants.

This means that dogs of every breed depend on humans to understand them and not vice versa, much as we do to today’s politicians. Even more so, they expect us to set rules and level instructions about what we expect from them, especially when they insist that The Living Dead are climbing over our front gate.


So in the interests of helping you manage mysterious canine behavior and of explaining to your four-footed buddies why it goes for a walk at the end of a leash, top experts unanimously agree on the following advice (really written up in most dog training guides):

1. Neuter or spay your dog. Not only is this good for their health, but it will also reduce hormonal dominance levels, and your pet’s interest in running off with the cow in the field next door.

2. Stop roughhousing and playing tug-of-war with your dog. When your dog wins, he thinks he is stronger than you; and stronger dogs place themselves higher in the social hierarchy of the family. That means he could take it upon himself to redecorate your home.

3. Do not reward your dog if it hasn’t earned a reward. If your dog approaches you and demands to be petted, make him sit or fetch or roll over, or, if it’s one of the smarter breeds, help with your tax-filing, (But always double-check any dog’s math, no matter how smart he is.)

4. Only issue commands you intend to enforce. In the pack, the alpha dog is never ignored. So, if you experience insubordination from Barney or Thur or Daisy, your dog must be put in its place. Require it to scratch into the dirt “cooperative behavior is key to pack survival” ten times, or until it forgets what it’s doing.

5. You must always be perceived as the leader. You need to be the first to walk through doors, to eat, and to choose which movie you’ll be watching. If your alpha dog is pulling on the leash or walking out in front of you —  you need to step instantly and confidently in front and assume your leadership position (unless of course you spot a gang of thugs up ahead).

6. Do not let your dog eat at the table with you, and never let it bark with its mouth full.

7. Dogs shouldn’t sleep on the bed with you. It isn’t healthy. And the animal will certainly disturb your sleep, especially if it has restless leg syndrome.

8. When your dog does something right, praise it by saying, “Good dog!” and then by making physical contact. Patting and stroking work well. However, according to the experts, kissing, nuzzling and dancing together will almost always lead to relationship misunderstandings.

9. If you need a little time to yourself and you have a Mexican dog, it will sit in the car and listen to the radio.

10. If your dog exhibits violently aggressive behavior, correct this immediately and demonstratively. If this unwanted behavior continues, put on your fedora, drape your overcoat elegantly over your shoulders without entering the sleeves and inform your dog that you are the Capo di tutti capi (boss of all bosses), and that your whack on the nose is not personal, it’s business. This works every time.